I Have Learned ..
I Am Grateful For All Of My Problems.
After Each One Was And Is Overcome,
I Have Became Stronger,
And More Able To Meet Those That Are Still To Come.
I Grow In My Difficulties.
Arrow goes forward only after pulling in to backward.
Bullet goes forward only after pressing the trigger backward.
Every human being will get happyonly after facing the difficulties in their life path…
So do not afraid to face your difficulties.
They will push you forward.
This week was a very unpleasant one.. i was deeply hurt, upset and angry all at once. It started last friday, hubby got home early after Friday prayers to rest at home, tak larat nak keja. When he got home, to his suprise, the gate was unlock and the grill was not closed. So, dia pun jerit la... "Tini, tini"...rupanya to our suprise, our maid takde dlm umah. Hati dah rase tak sedap selama ni, pernah dengar cerita yg dia keluar without our knowledge, tapi yg buat lagi rase tak sedap, bila tengok rumah semak, sampah tak kutip and pintu tak kunci. Nasib baik, i never leave my daughter with her (all this time, i never trusted an indonesian taking care of my child..i still don't...thank god for that). So..my hubby did the first thing came to his mind...he lock all the doors and change the keys..
an hour later, my maid got home,..and to her suprise, she was lock outside. Takut nak masuk, she sat outside for 4 hours until i reached home from work. pakai baju hugging, seluar ketat and tak pakai tudung as selalu. isk..Acting macam tak tau apa2...i invited her in..and acting normally as i could.. suruh dia angkat kain and tolong masak. Hubby lak diam sebab terlampau marah. our intention was nak buat biase je..tapi going to interrogate her the next morning. My maid kept silent during the night, and we locked her in to go to bed.
Hubby woke up early on Saturday, and unlock her (so she can do her chore)...but to our suprise gate belakang tak kunci, and her stuff was all gone and a note was left on her bed. SHE RAN AWAY!!!... arghhhhhhh...marah betul la kami. dah la tak sempat nak marah pasal insiden petang smlm, pagi2 dah lari..isk.. nasib baik abg kunci pintu rumah, kalau tak abis perabot di kebas nya. We called her husband in Indonesia...and told him about the matter..and was persuading him to find his wife, or we will called the police. Kami pun malas nak pk and layan masalah merepek ni, so we decided to go for window shopping at OU. we got home around 3.30pm, and there she was ...standing in front of the gate with her 4 bags. It seems that her husband managed to contact her before she does anything foolish. But at 3pm, we recieved a call from a security guard informing us about our maid's behaviour....rupanya2...ada boyfriend, selalu keluar umah...and merewang ngan lelaki. geramnya dengar.......and they told us that our maid is home, send by a white car.
she walk in dengan muka tak bersalahnya...siap ada reaksi berlagak lagi..so hubby apa lagi...sembur la..tapi bole tak mengaku salah...kata first time keluar, balik sorg la...jalan sorg2... penipu btul...kesian kat family dia kampung, percaya bagai nak rak cari rezeki kat malaysia, tapi buat hal ngan lelaki lain. kami rampas her handphone, and lock her in again...this time we lock from outside. so dia tak leh keluar langsung, sampai kami beli tiket untuk dia pulang..(her hubby wants her safely home..)
Nak dijadikan cerita, on Tuesday, our neighbours came to see us...n told us the stories that our maid has been influencing their maid all this time...they went out meeting guys and leave the house unattended...ya allah....geramnya laa rase hati. malu pun ada.. mana taknya , maid yg kita percaya selama ni buat hal. Kami pun check la hp si maid ni...dan terbuktila, penuh sms cinta2...ngan tukang kebun kami pun dia buat hal.........warghhhhhhhhhh....apa la. we still kept our silence, we wanted to sembur our maid the night before we send her home. Takut dia apa-apakan nuyin or put anything in our food kalau dia suspect kami dah tau perangai sebenarnya.
Tengah malam Tuesday lak, exactly 1.15am,...we heard chaos outside the house, n we discovered that the maid next door kena tangkap berdua-duaan ngan seorg pemandu lori Melayu Malaysia......aiyoh...it seems that the guy masuk bilik the maid dah byk kali, tapi akhirnya kena tangkap jua. Astaghfirullah, terus menyirap darah kami....nama pemandu lori tu ada dlm phone maid kami.... aiyoh..kalau rumah sebelah bole masuk, rumah kami ntah macam mana lak. the maid n the guy was brought to police station, and that's the last time we heard about them. Kami tak bgtau our maid, and she still doesn't know about her friend. takut kalau dia tau, dia lari ngan pemandu lori lain lak.
isk.........dah jadi macam drama swasta lak minggu ni...kami inform her hubby about her behaviour here, and we made a promise to send her back as soon as immigration settles and her ticket has been booked. kesian kat hubby dia...he seems very dissapointed and betrayed...and so does us. alhamdulillah, ptg semalam immigration matters has been cleared and her work permit has been cancelled and her flight home was booked on Saturday morning, 5 am. Alhamdulillah...tak sabar dah tunggu dia balik....naik meluat dah tengok dia kat umah.
Tu la...it was a very unpleasant week. Nuyin lak got mouth infection and i had to take emergency leave sebab takut berjangkit ngan bebudak nursery. Hubby send the maid to his sister's house during the day...supaya lost contact dgn kenalan2 yg sedia ada kat taman kami. hmm..ntahla, ni la indonesian maid...amik yg tua..nyanyuk...amik yg muda, menggatal lak... isk...macam mana nak percaya dah....i felt deeply betrayed by them...ntahla...sedih btul...macam2 dugaan ketika mengandung ni...~astaghfirullahalazim~
my princess with her glasses...her mak de's bracelet and her antique handphone. ;)
us ...at TGI's Fridays, One Utama
Nuyin on her Kiddie Cabbie Ride, One Utama..(sibuk je janitor tu nak sapu belakang keta nuyin)
Nuyin with grandpa 'Atuk' having fun at Ikea...(nampak kaki Atuk je)
Ibu and Nuyin..
Us at Merak Kayangan...during a wedding..